A bit of advice
Okay, a bit of a conundrum today. Let me know what you think my course of action should be considering the following circumstances: Today, while at work, T (a fellow employee of UPS) and I were standing near the front of the store being bored when a pretty girl about 20-odd years old was approaching from the parking lot. "She's coming in to ask for a job." Says T. "I don't think so" I replied. She walked in, looking first at T, saying hello to him, then looks over at me and goes "Oh....hello" I then proceed to help her with some items. All the while keeping up a friendly and somewhat flirtatious banter with me, she lingers a bit before leaving. After she's gone T turns to me and says "Man, did you notice? She was diggin' on you." I laughed and said "Not actually."
You see, the girl in question I had already asked out. I asked her out last year in fact. She initially said okay, but then after giving me her phone number appeared to recant her earlier agreement. How do I know this you ask? Well, she gave me a fake number. I got some Mexicans instead of a nice young coed. I was kind of mad and kind of happy. Please notice that this was the first time anyone has ever given me a fake phone number. It felt like some kind of rite of passage in some strange sadistic manner. On the flip side, I was annoyed because I would rather someone just say "No thanks", "Sorry, but no", or even "Hell no you ugly beast! Get thee away from me!" than lie to me. Seeing her today was the first time I had seen her since last year.
So, considering all of the above: She was flirtatious today, she seemed interested, she gave me a fake phone number last year, etc... What course of action would my loving audience suggest? I happen to have her email address. I decided not to use it last year after the whole fake number thing, but I do still possess it. So should I drop her an email and explain the whole thing (reasoning that maybe it was a mistake on her part)? Should I ignore it? Should I stay the hell away from it? Should I go with my usual philosophy of "Screw it. Many fish in the Sea"? Should I shut the hell up and stop being a whiny bitch? Let me know what you think. I'm already leaning towards a particular course of action, but I want some feedback.
Side Note: Just to appease Heather. Don't worry, she's not dumb. She speaks three languages and plays the Cello. Quite above my usual standards eh?
You see, the girl in question I had already asked out. I asked her out last year in fact. She initially said okay, but then after giving me her phone number appeared to recant her earlier agreement. How do I know this you ask? Well, she gave me a fake number. I got some Mexicans instead of a nice young coed. I was kind of mad and kind of happy. Please notice that this was the first time anyone has ever given me a fake phone number. It felt like some kind of rite of passage in some strange sadistic manner. On the flip side, I was annoyed because I would rather someone just say "No thanks", "Sorry, but no", or even "Hell no you ugly beast! Get thee away from me!" than lie to me. Seeing her today was the first time I had seen her since last year.
So, considering all of the above: She was flirtatious today, she seemed interested, she gave me a fake phone number last year, etc... What course of action would my loving audience suggest? I happen to have her email address. I decided not to use it last year after the whole fake number thing, but I do still possess it. So should I drop her an email and explain the whole thing (reasoning that maybe it was a mistake on her part)? Should I ignore it? Should I stay the hell away from it? Should I go with my usual philosophy of "Screw it. Many fish in the Sea"? Should I shut the hell up and stop being a whiny bitch? Let me know what you think. I'm already leaning towards a particular course of action, but I want some feedback.
Side Note: Just to appease Heather. Don't worry, she's not dumb. She speaks three languages and plays the Cello. Quite above my usual standards eh?
